Saturday, January 11, 2014

Road Trip Lessons: Reckless "Courage"

This week, I have found myself travelling, something I seem to find myself doing quite often. Usually, when I go places, I like to take my adventurous son along with me. Whenever he can, my husband comes along, but this time, the situation required that I travel alone. My travels were supposed to take me to Tulsa, Oklahoma to spend time helping a friend, but my friend’s situation changed. As the immediate need for my presence had passed, I was left with a choice: turn around immediately and return home, or take advantage of a clear schedule and some time alone. Following the suggestion of my good-sported husband, I chose the latter.

It’s funny sometimes how God allows our plans to be altered so that he can present us with something else. He knew that only an emergency would be able to pull me away from both my husband and my son for more than a day. So He did just that. He gave me an emergency. Then, He traded me a sabbatical.
I spent time catching up with dear old friends and got to have some playtime with my nieces. I took a drive through Amish country, played tourist at the Precious Moments Chapel, and went rock climbing. I had a meat pie at an authentic Australian cafe called the “Walkabout Coffee Shop.” I treated myself to a shopping trip, got my hair done, but most importantly, got to spend some alone time with God.

God has a way of using situations, even the most mundane ones, to teach us important life lessons. On this trip, he started teaching me a couple. God knows how much I love travelling, and he used travelling this week to show me that there’s a fine line between courage and recklessness. I tend to walk the fence between them with poor, unsteady balance.

Courage will drive hundreds of miles in a snow storm…er polar vortex…to help a friend. Recklessness will forget to check the oil. Adventurers will turn a road trip into an opportunity for making new friends, catching up with old ones, and finding fun along the way. Recklessness, however, will allow a country girl to drive after dark, during rush hour, in a unfamiliar large city while it’s raining.

Thankfully, my car didn't die and I eventually made it off the interstate. I finally remembered the importance of maintaining good tire pressure and watching your car’s oil level. God was watching over me and kept me safe, but not without a lesson and warning.


Courage may include a willingness to gamble, to take a risk for a good cause, but it also has the wisdom to know when to bet and when to fold. It knows how to choose a good cause to fight for. Adventure will always include at least a small element of danger. That’s part of what makes it an adventure. However, the one who survives an adventure recognizes when the risks of danger exceed his level of experience.


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